 | Q : I'm a happy person but there is a thorn in my heart. I can't forgive someone who has been unfaithful to me. How am I to handle someone who is not serious with relationship?
A: Despite the thorn in the heart, you are still a happy person. That is not easy! But you are still not able to forgive someone who has been unfaithful. Cannot forgive implies cannot pardon. Likewise, cannot pardon implies cannot accommodate. Essentially, this means you cannot let go. The irony is that you are still a happy person. If someone does not take the relationship seriously, it could mean both of you do not have the karmic affinity. If that is the case, why should you bother being serious about it. If "not being serious" refers to "not calculative," then it is a good thing. On the other hand, if it means being habitually not focused and not mindful, then this is a negative trait. When faced with positive affinity, accept it with open arms. On the contrary, when faced with negative affinity, take it as a warning or reminder. Learn to accept affinity naturally. |